“Most important of all, continue to show deep love for each other, for love covers a multitude of sins” (1 Peter 4:8, NLT).
We have a tendency to remember the wrongs done to us, sometimes for our whole lives. The old adage that it takes many positive comments to make up for a single negative one must be true as I still remember the insults I received as a child. We tell ourselves those hurtful words don’t affect us but they do.
God understands insults and put downs—Jesus received many in his short life. But unlike us, he had the big picture and realized even those who crucified him didn’t know what they were doing. When we sling mud, we have little to no comprehension of how we affect others. Thankfully, God’s deep love covers, forgives and forgets our sins and he wants us to do the same for each other, for we are all made in his image. In this life of relationships and interactions with imperfect people, the most important thing we can do is shower them with affirmations of God’s love and grace, erase the insults and cover the sins.